September 16, 2015

How To: Look Slim After Having a Baby


I've been getting a lot of comments (and emails) about my postpartum shape. I've done my fare share to not gain too much while I was pregnant but knowing how to dress your body to accentuate your strong parts, is also helpful. As well as owning a good pair of spanx (ha!). Here are my tips and tricks to looking fabulous after pregnancy.

1. Tuck It In. First and foremost, you must (absolutely HAVE TO) invest in a good pair of shape wear and undergarments. You can look great, and have expensive clothes but if your bra doesn't fit right, especially when nursing, it's a lost cause. Wearing supportive undergarments that help shape your body (and hide that tummy) is the oldest trick in the book. Although, for some reason, not everyone knows it. I'm letting the cat out of the bag - this amazing invention is your best friend. If you don't like the idea of being tucked in so much, getting a pair of regular spanx will help (a lot).

2. Shift Dress Galore. Before I knew what postpartum body was, I hated shift dresses. To me they felt so unshapely and very blah. I had a great figure and wasn't about to let a shapeless dress to hide it. Now, it's a totally different story. Shift dresses look feminine yet they hide the unwanted tummy (also see maxi dresses). So get yourself a few of those ASAP (see top photos)

3. Flaunt What You've Got. Every woman has at least one great feature. If you have gorgeous legs, then wear short skirt. If you didn't gain any weight in your butt, accentuate your figure with great pair of jeans. I have a slim waist and therefore right now I'm playing around that. Notice how the second row of photos are all fit and flare. The fit part accentuates the skinniest part of me, while the flare hides unwanted rolls. It's a win - win. Find your best feature and make it work for you.

 4. Avoid the Tent Look. The rule of thumb is that if the top is fit, then the bottom should be a little more loose and vice versa. Do not put on an overzised sweater on top of culottes  - you are running a risk of someone asking you how far along are you. Even though chunky knits with skinny jeans are great at hiding the belly, do not wear tops that have a high waist - they will make you look pregnant. Choose loose and straight shaped top with slimmer bottoms.

5. Own it. Your body went through so much. From growing another human being to expelling that little person out of your (even smaller) private area. It's a lot to process! Be kind to yourself, love your body and what it did. Don't get discouraged if the weight doesn't just fall off in a few weeks. It took you 9 months to gain all that weight, so give it at least half that to start going away. Own your stretch marks, leaking boobs and half pregnant tummy. This is a special time so cherish it and enjoy every moment!

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September 14, 2015

Fall Denim Trends







dress: Old Navy (similar)
bag: BCBG via TJMaxx c/o (similar under $30)
glasses: Tory Burch (similar under $25)
sandals: Franco Sarto (similar)

Welcome back to another work week! Although it seems like the entire blogging world is partying down in New York City during NYFW. I'm so excited for fall with so much trends like denim on denim, lots (and lots) of red, as well as some old trends coming back. Flares! Who knew that if I kept my flares from about seven years ago, they would be such a hit?! Now if only they would fit this postpartum belly. I've been keeping an eye on so many NYFW shows and excited to share the round up with you. Follow me on Instagram for the latest updates as well! Thanks for stopping by! 

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September 11, 2015

Denim x Denim







shirt: LOFT (similar)
skirt: Gap
loafers: Target (similar)
satchel: BCBG TJMaxx c/o (similar)
watch: Fossil
glasses: Karen Walker via DITTO c/o


This outfit is inspired by the New York Fashion Week. Denim on denim has got to be one of the hottest trends this fall, plus going back to wearing jean skirt has me all nostalgic about my youth group days. Ahhhhh not a care in the world! Adding red satchel and leopard print is just what this outfit needed. Can you tell I love my new BCBG bag, which I score for a quarter of a price at TJMaxx? That place has my heart. 
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September 10, 2015

What I'm Wearing To NYFW

Morning Shows

dress / booties / bag / glasses / watch / bangles 

Evening Shows


After Show Party

tee / skirt / necklace / pumps/ bangles / clutch
Hello and welcome to the Fashion Week (it is actually entire month of shows, travel and new trends). If I was going to the New York Fashion Week (maybe one day!) this is what I would wear. It's still really warm out but everyone will be sporting fall trends. I love the denim on denim look, and open toe booties for this season. Also, plaid is everywhere! (Have you seen Kate Spade look book?) Lastly, you can't go wrong with a sparkly maxi skirt which can be downplayed with a simple tee.
Although I'm not going to be physically present at the shows, I will be watching most of them online. If you had to pick just one (any one) designer, who would you go to see at NYFW? Mine is, Oscar de la Renta! The legendary designer created timeless and classy pieces that I always loved to draw inspiration from. 

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September 9, 2015

A Day Of Fun a.k.a. What Were We Thinking











Last week we ventured for a day out. Starting with a farmer's market in the morning and ending the day with bike rides at my mom's house. It was quite the day.
I know that from pictures it seems that everything is perfect, but it wasn't. Kids were hot and cranky - they didn't listen to a word I said. The baby needed to be changed. I was dying from heat (who wears all denim outfit when it's 80 out?) and frustrated. There were a lot of groceries that didn't fit anywhere. I was ready throw in the towel and my mom reminded me to laugh and smile. It was comical - us trying to take pictures, baby crying, kids throwing a fit and me yelling at them to smile. Ha! Life isn't perfect, so don't be fooled by the little snippets of time that seem like they are. Most of the time there is a lot of non-perfection going on behind the scenes!.
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