Possibilities

dress: Loft (old). blazer: Target, shoes: Tahari, scarf: TJMaxx, bag: Kate Spade NY

It's getting chilly outside. Obviously. It's October outside and yet every year when it gets cold, I'm all 'what's happening to this world'. Naturally, my circulation is very low and although pregnancy was supposed to fix that, I'm still as cold as ever. But what's nice about this weather is being all wrapped up in my cozy PJs with hot cup of tea in my hands.

Also it's layering and mixing of my wardrobe that I absolutely love. I mean, if I was wearing just dress with heels it still would look nice, but adding scarf, tights and blazer makes for a more complete combo. So as much as I complain about the cold and do not like to get up in the morning, picking out an outfit now-a-days is impossible because there are many possibilities. Maybe that's why I can never get out of the house on time.

Think Again

We enjoyed the beautiful fall colors and gorgeous view while out for a walk.
Isn't this absolutely magnificent? 

People just don't know that being pregnant makes you that much more sensitive to the remarks they make.

First of all, yes, I know I'm showing. You do not need to reiterate that with "Wow! you are getting big". Seriously, you don't think I know that my narrow waist is gone and I can do nothing about it? You don't think I check myself in the mirror? Well, think again.

Next, do not predict the size of my child by looking at me. Do not tell me that I'm going to get huge with the way things are going. Again, think.

Do not tell me that my stomach is squishy and soft, if I let you touch it. Thanks a lot. I know that I'm a big blob of gushy mess. Just don't say it.

Lastly, the only thing you can say to a pregnant woman is that she is glowing. 

Tell her that she is carrying very well and that her child is going to be so lucky to have her as a mom.

So next time you want to say something less than absolutely one hundred percent positive and reassuring to  to a pregnant woman, think again.

It's Only the Beginning

Hair Tutorial Inspiration

top: Banana Republic similar, sweater: J.Crew similar, pants: Loft similar, heels: Tahari

I know I have been talking a lot about this whole pregnancy thing. Well, this whole experience is very new to me. I am happy to be bringing a child into this world, into our loving home but what I'm not happy about is what that precious child is doing to my body.

First of all, super dry skin. I am slathering ridiculous amounts of almond oil all over myself every morning.

Then the vitamins and the very needed Calcium that's giving me a little bit of the unmentionable.

After that it's the food. Technically, I don't have any crazy cravings but a lot of times I don't know what I want to eat. I know that I need to have nutritious meals, I must have breakfast but a lot of times I just don't want to eat at all. Guilty pleasure of this week - fried chicken sandwich. A quest for the perfect crispy chicken through different places, ended up exceeding my quota for bad food for the entire month.

Lastly, the weight gain. As of last Friday I have gained eight pounds and the baby is weighing 15.5 oz. This is a pretty good number according to my physician but I don't feel that way. 

The thing is, this is only the beginning. Two more weeks and I will start my last trimester which means all of the above multiplied by like ten. So bare with me as I try to navigate through this confusing but most exciting time. And tell you all about it if you are willing to listen.

Fall Colors

top: Ann Taylor, skirt: Loft, blazer: Talbots, shoes: Aldo, necklace: Calvin Klein

I love the fall colors. The gorgeous tree colors and the warm sun. 

So why not take those colors into my closet? I have couple orange and bordeaux pieces that are going to regulars here... I love that I can layer pieces and come with so many different outfits, even being preggo having half of my closet not fit me anymore. 

One amazing thing about carrying the baby is constantly feeling that little one inside you. I guess being a dad is awesome too but I feel like women get to be a mom so much earlier. It's amazing how active this little boy is. And although I haven't met him yet, I love him so very much. It's wonderful feeling of connection. 

My hubby calls him 'our son' which makes him so real and present all the time. Now if we could just agree on a name, everything would be just perfect.

New Best Friend

top: TJMaxx, pants: J.Crew, shoes: Aldo, bag: Kate Spade NY, shades: Old Navy

So I cannot wear any of my winter clothes. Well, maybe like four sweaters that were meant to be oversized last season and  fit perfectly this time. I have given away lots of the clothes that don't fit to my sister.  My closet was crying with me.

Also, it seems like half the stuff in the stores, even sizing up,  is so short that with my pooch bulging out some things barely cover my belly button.
Soooo thrift store is my new best friend.
I picked up these brand new pants with tag still on at thrift store. Although they are a bit loose, ohhh heavenly corduroy they are so comfy.
Thank God for comfy pants. And mid-day naps.

It's a ....

top: thrifed, skirt: NY& Co, shoes: Aldo, necklace, belt: Calvin Klein

This weekend was very joyous. We found out that it's A BOY! 

A little man is on the way and this mama has a lot to prepare for. You see, I have been surrounded by girls all my life. I have one sister, all the cousins that we grew up with are girls, I have three aunts that I am fairly close with. It was kind of closed girl society growing up - we shared everything, from clothes to first boy stories. 

And now, I have a boy on the way.

I am a very girly girl, so having a boy around here will be different. But I knew it was going to be a boy so it's not a surprise for me. 

Hubby and I are very happy that he is healthy and everything is going great. 

Let the planning begin.

The Day

top: Banana Republic, cardigan: Gap, pants: Loft, shoes: BCBG,

So today is the day. The day we find out who w are having. I can't wait! 

We are planning a little get together with our families to reveal who we are having. Everyone will have to chose a cupcake with topper you think the baby is going to be (boy or girl) and then bite into it to see the color. It's going to be so much fun! 

So what's your guess?
You are going to have to wait to find out...

P.S. We are up to 10,000 views and counting... Thank you all for reading sharing! 

Motherhood of Traveling Pants

pants: Gap, shirt: thrifted, blazer: Banana Republic, necklace, heels: Sharlotte Russe,  

Remember that movie "Sisterhood of Traveling Pants"? I think it was a great idea, from financial stand point. Someone needs to come up with store or online shopping site where pregnant women can exchange, sell and buy clothes. I mean, I want to look good and stylish yet I don't want to spend a lot of money on my maternity clothes.
There are other women who feel the same way, and this short period of time still deserves some attention. It would be great to have a place where you can borrow or even buy stylish maternity clothes of all sizes and then return them or sell back.
Maybe that's my calling in life? Or do they already have that? But for now I'm just going to have to go on a hunt for some cute maternity wear or start buying bigger clothes.
And this time I actually need them.

Layered Up

pants, cardigan: Loft, blazer: H&M, purse: Kate Spade NY, shoes: Ann Taylor

I love fall. With its crispy, sunny mornings and hot tea with honey. Layering up those cardigans and then some, with the very best pair of pants I have ever owed. 

They have polka dots. Yeeeek!

Fall is so charming...

 It's the mixing of those solid hues and putting on a scarf. 

It's the bright orange and yellow leaves that just take your breath away. 

It's the fresh smell of apple crisp in the oven and zucchini muffins. 

It's the quiet evenings at home with hot cider in hand and the come back of my favorite shows, currently Suits and Parenthood.
Also, it's the warm wool socks that my grandma made for me that I put on the moment I get home.
Stay warm and have a great day!

One Shirt - Two Ways

Ever since the baby started kicking and moving around inside my belly, he just doesn't quiet down. Especially, when I'm hungry. He's giving me some good kicks if I haven't eaten in about five hours and letting me know that hey, it's lunch time. 

There is no doubt this kid will blend well in our family - we like our food, he seems too. He especially seem to like chicken quesadillas with spicy salsa. That's been the craving as of late. So while you are reading this post and updating your Facebook status, I'm going to make myself another quesadilla.

P.S. I love stripes. They are just so universal and very practical. You can pair them with everything from jeans to skirts (case and point).

My Heart Can't Get Any Bigger

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Yesterday my hubby and I went to pick up my mom at the airport. We were having a quiet drive and just talking about this and that. 

And he showed himself. The baby kicked for the first time. I could feel it. It was a very distinct feeling and nothing in the world could describe it. I was so surprised that I teared up a little.

It was so special. 

Then in the morning, we both slept in and were lounging in PJs. He did it again but in time for me to grab hubby's hand and for him to feel it.

 It was amazing! 

It was our little growing family and the baby was right there with us. 

I wish I could describe the overwhelming joy and peace that overcame my heart. 

Becoming a mother changes you forever.

Thank you my little one for giving me this new look on life.

We will meet very soon...

P.S. Now be a good boy/girl and behave when the doctor wants to look at your whoo-ha. That's because we really want to know who you will be! 

We're Going to Party

I'm thinking about throwing a little party. I want to gather all the family and have a gender-reveal party, with some fun decorations and definitely pink/blue colored frosting on the cake. I also love making cute invitations, and DIY seems to be the best way to make this occasion a little bit more memorable. 

I know, it's our first and everything is pretty special right now. 

But why not celebrate the special moments in life? 

I have been snooping around Pinterest and getting all inspired by the super cute ideas they have. I mean, who doesn't like getting a cute invitation. It's half the fun! 

 stylishly adorable

funky fun

No, it's not a girl but can make it just white onesie 

It's fall after all!

The Real Me

top, pants: Loft, necklace: J.Crew, shoes: BCBG DIY, shades: Old Navy

I want to be real.

I don't want to have another of those blogs that has a skinny model with all the designer labels.

I'm a real woman, with real issues and imperfect body. Plus pregnant.
I have a booty and now, my narrow waist is gone, being filled in by the bump. I honestly considered quitting the blog. I mean who wants to put pictures of themselves when their booty is getting bigger and you can do nothing about it? Well, I will.

I want to show the good and the bad.

The real me did not wear those heels with this outfit. The real me wore pretty silver flats and comfortably went to lunch. The real me zipped the pants while standing up, but when sat down had to let go of the button. The real me likes to wear a matching pink sweatpants and shirt while lounging at home.

The real me is wearing a maternity belly wand underneath that tee, to make sure I can still wear all my pre-pregnancy clothes.

None of this stuff is horrible, bad or even surprising. I just don't want you think of me as an image from a polished blog picture.

There are bad hair days too.

This girl is for real.

Thanks for reading!